Skincare can sometimes feel like a subject where everyone else knows the rules. We’re told to double cleanse, exfoliate, layer our serums, protect our skin from the sun and never, ever pick a spot, but what if you have a question that doesn’t quite fit the usual skincare conversation? Is it really bad to sleep in your makeup just once? Can you use someone else’s cleanser? Why does your skin sometimes smell strange? And does squeezing a blackhead actually make it worse, or is that just something skincare experts tell us to stop us meddling? There are plenty of perfectly normal skincare questions that rarely make it into the glossy beauty guides. So, we’re answering some of the slightly awkward, surprisingly specific and downright embarrassing questions you may have wondered about but were too afraid to ask. No judgement, just honest answers.
Why does my skin sometimes feel dirty after I’ve washed it?
That oddly unclean feeling after cleansing doesn’t necessarily mean your skin isn’t clean. If your skin feels tight, squeaky or uncomfortable, your cleanser may be removing too much of the skin’s natural oils. Hard water can also leave mineral deposits behind, creating a film that makes skin feel less than fresh. Alternatively, if you’re using a rich cleanser or balm and not rinsing thoroughly, some residue may remain. Over-cleansing in an attempt to achieve that “squeaky clean” feeling can actually disrupt the skin barrier and lead to dryness and irritation. Clean skin should feel comfortable and refreshed, not stripped or tight.
We recommend: Aromatherapy Associates Nourishing Cleansing Balm
Why do I get spots in exactly the same place every month?
If the same spot keeps making an appearance in the same location, hormones could be partly responsible, particularly if you notice a pattern around your menstrual cycle. Hormonal fluctuations can increase oil production and inflammation, making certain areas more prone to breakouts. But there can also be a much simpler explanation. Pores that repeatedly become blocked, friction from glasses or clothing, touching your face, mobile phones or even hair products can all contribute to recurring spots. If you’re always getting a blemish in precisely the same place, it may be worth looking at what regularly comes into contact with that area rather than simply treating each breakout as an isolated spot.
We recommend: Murad Biome-Balancing Clear and Prevent Blemish Treatment Serum
Can you actually shrink your pores?
Unfortunately, no skincare product can permanently make your pores physically smaller. Pore size is largely determined by genetics, although factors such as excess oil, congestion, sun damage and loss of skin elasticity can make pores appear more prominent. You can, however, make them look smaller. Salicylic acid can help clear oil and dead skin cells from inside pores, while retinoids can encourage cell turnover and support collagen production. Niacinamide may also help regulate excess sebum. And don’t underestimate SPF. UV damage can reduce collagen and make pores appear larger over time. So, rather than trying to “shrink” your pores, focus on keeping them clear and protecting your skin.
We recommend: REN Clean Skincare Clearcalm Invisible Pores Detox Mask
Why does my moisturiser sometimes roll into little balls on my skin?
Those annoying little balls are known as pilling, and they don’t necessarily mean your moisturiser has gone bad. Pilling can happen when skincare products don’t layer well together, particularly when you’re applying several products containing silicones, polymers or film-forming ingredients. Using too much product can also make it more likely. The way you apply your skincare matters too. Rubbing and massaging products vigorously can cause them to gather into little rolls on the surface rather than settling into the skin. Try using smaller amounts, allowing each layer a little time to absorb and gently pressing products into the skin rather than repeatedly rubbing. If it still happens, try simplifying your routine and using silicone-free products.
We recommend: Elemis Pro-Collagen Morning Matrix
Can facial hair change how skincare products work?
Yes, facial hair can affect how easily skincare products reach the skin, although it doesn’t mean you need a completely different routine. A thick beard can make it harder to apply products evenly to the skin underneath, so cleanser and moisturiser need to be worked through the hair rather than simply applied to the surface. Facial hair can also trap oil, sweat, dead skin cells and product residue, potentially contributing to irritation or blocked pores. Interestingly, facial shaving has become increasingly popular among women, particularly with the rise of dermaplaning and “peach fuzz removal”. But here’s the thing: women are supposed to have facial hair. Fine vellus hair, commonly called peach fuzz, is completely normal and doesn’t need to be removed. Shaving it is a cosmetic choice, not a skincare necessity. If you’re trying to create a smoother surface to make your make-up look flawless, exfoliation is a much better option.
We recommend: Elemis Dynamic Resurfacing Facial Pads

